Podcast

Surviving to Thriving: Ken Bechtel

By Shelley / June 20, 2018 /

  Surviving to Thriving: Overcoming My Darkest Moment Ken Bechtel Welcome back to my video interview series, “Surviving to Thriving: Overcoming My Darkest Moment,” where I interview people about an emotional low point in their life and how they worked through it. In this episode I’m talking with speaker, educator and relationship mentor Ken Bechtel.…

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#261- Journey of Attachment: The Weight of Anger and Resentment 

By Shelley / June 19, 2018 /

  #261- Journey of Attachment: The Weight of Anger and Resentment Do you have a resentment account? You know, similar to a savings account where you fill it up with all your angry deposits. Maybe you’ve been adding to it a lot lately—that happens in attached relationships—but I guarantee you’ve been contributing for much longer. It…

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#260- Searching For Consistency In Relationships

By Shelley / June 15, 2018 /

  #260- Searching For Consistency In Relationships You have been looking your whole life for someone who is open, vulnerable and consistent, not understanding why you can’t find him/her. These are qualities you value, yet you don’t fully embody them yourself, so you look for someone who will compensate for where you’re closed and inconsistent. Unfortunately…

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Surviving to Thriving: Lyneè Urban

By Shelley / June 13, 2018 /

  Surviving to Thriving: Overcoming My Darkest Moment Lyneè Urban This is the very first interview for “Surviving to Thriving: Overcoming My Darkest Moment.” Join me as I interview Lyneè Urban of Operation Fix My Life. She is a Nutrition and Lifestyle Coach dedicated to teaching busy women how to eliminate stress, transform their health,…

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#259- Journey of Attachment: Redefining Joy

By Shelley / June 12, 2018 /

  #259- Journey of Attachment: Redefining Joy Joy is not the absence of pain, although it can seem that way when you don’t know any better. When you feel stuck in your love life, nothing has a shine to it. You’re in search of something to make you feel happy, yet you don’t see the limitations…

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#258- Saving People From Learning Their Own Lessons

By Shelley / June 8, 2018 /

  #258- Saving People From Learning Their Own Lessons Do you hand out unsolicited advice, telling people how to live their lives? Maybe you think you’re doing them a favor because you want to save them from learning the “hard” way. After all, you know better than they do. Whether with friends or intimate relationships, this…

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#257- Journey of Attachment: Manipulation Doesn’t Lead to Change

By Shelley / June 5, 2018 /

  #257- Journey of Attachment: Manipulation Doesn’t Lead to Change Your relationship isn’t going well. You don’t feel heard or appreciated, but you think if your partner would just try harder to do what you want him/her to do consistently, you’d feel better. Instead, you feel undermined because your feelings are dismissed; clearly you are “imagining…

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#256- Why Do I Always Feel Wrong Even When I’m Not?

By Shelley / June 1, 2018 /

  #256- Why Do I Always Feel Wrong Even When I’m Not? The “I am wrong” belief is one that still pops up for me, and for many of my clients. The inner judge can be so critical, making you feel wrong for everything you do. It can often be triggered by what someone says. Maybe…

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#255- Journey of Attachment: The Fantasy of Someone Else’s Life

By Shelley / May 29, 2018 /

  #255- Journey of Attachment: The Fantasy of Someone Else’s Life How much time do you spend investing in the lives of other people? Do you look at celebrities and think they know more about life than you do? Maybe you have a different set of rules for yourself and others, and the ones for yourself…

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#254- Controlling Others So You’re Not Angry With Yourself

By Shelley / May 25, 2018 /

  #254- Controlling Others So You’re Not Angry With Yourself When you’re not happy with your current situation—whatever it is—you may feel angry. You think you’re pissed at the outside world, but really your anger lies with yourself. You don’t accept where you are; it’s not where you want to be. So in an attempt to…

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