#447 – Journey Of Attachment: Why Earn Someone’s Love and Attention? Give Yourself Love and Attention!

#447 – Journey Of Attachment: Why Earn Someone’s Love and Attention? Give Yourself Love and Attention!

Are you always stepping in to be the “rescuer” of others? It seems the role you play to be recognized, loved or at least not abandoned. What about with your partner? You wait around for the right moment that you can jump in and be a hero, saving him or her looking like you have enough value to that person that they will be forever indebted. You think that taking care of everyone around you will gain you the validation and attention that you crave.

But here’s the problem: That’s a very lonely place to be.

If you only look to others for validation, you’ll never feel good enough. You may not even realize that you do this, because you’ve been on autopilot for so long. There are tips to recognizing your “selfless” behavior and changing it. You have to recognize your own worth for others to do the same. If you’re ready for a happy, healthy relationship, it starts from within. In today’s episode, learn how to listen to yourself and finally be your own superhero.

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