#819: Are You Still Forcing Sh** to Happen?
Are you exhausted from trying to make everything happen? From kicking down doors and forcing your way into opportunities that never quite pan out?
Stop. Just stop.
You think you’re being proactive, but you’re actually running from yourself. Every time you force something—a relationship, a job, a business opportunity—you’re telling the universe you don’t trust it to deliver. You’re saying you’re not enough as you are.
In this episode, Tracy explores:
- Why forcing comes from not believing in yourself
- How attachment keeps you stuck in patterns of scarcity and desperation
- The difference between taking action and forcing outcomes
- Why avoidants struggle to value what they already have
- How to break the cycle of work hard → fail → repeat
“When you force, you’re never emotionally available. I was forcing because I thought that would open a door that would bring what was missing, but it never did.” ~ Tracy Crossley
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